I've felt apprehensive about writing on this topic and have thus avoided it for a while. Then today I read this article , and realized it was time. I know most of you can relate to this topic; some of you have been on both sides of the experience, and some of you only on one. But see the thing is, I didn't want to write about how to break up with someone, because I didn't want to seem like an asshole. Hmm … similar to how I never want to break up with someone because I don't want to seem like an asshole.
Skip navigation! Story from Sex. When I was dating my way through New York as a bright-eyed twentysomething, I was ghosted a lot. It happened so often, I had a boilerplate email I sent out afterward, one I shared with other spurned girlfriends and always pulled out with a heavy sigh to tailor for the latest dude — sort of a Mad Libs for assholes.
That will give you all the answers. That will solve all of your dating problems. But here are some principles that can help you figure out what is right for you. A lot of people in bad relationships find themselves fighting over seemingly innocuous and stupid things. I remember one of my ex-girlfriends and I got in a huge fight about toothpaste.
Anyone will tell you when it comes to ending a relationship that there are two paths you can take: the high road, and the low. You can either drop hints and slowly back off, or you can be bold and call it off. With as little ego bruises as possible, of course. With this method, you also give permission for your partner to faze you out of their lives as well.